Thursday, July 30, 2009

Hold Up Wait a Minute, Put A Little White In It!

While some sistas were putting up with lazy, gay, and/or generally sorry Black men, these sistas said Boy bye! and found successful unions with successful men of other races, mainly white. It's so interesting that Black women generally go for the cream of the crop white man, but Black men sometimes (usually) bend down to scrape the bottom of the white girl barrel.

Were you aware that an increasing number of white men love the strength and natural loveliness of Black women? They appreciate the difference and marvel at the beauty. I’m all for Black love, but if the store is out of brown bread I don't see nothin' wrong with trying the white.

This post is very picture-intense, but a picture is worth a thousand words. Imagine what all of these pics are saying...


Venus Williams and her boyfriend


Thandie Newton's mom and dad


Chris North and Tara Wilson


The Ambassor to the UN, Susan Rice, and Ian Cameron


Stacey Dash and husband Emmanuel Xuereb


The whole Mowry family


Simon Cowell and Teri


Ronald Betts and Family. Billionaires.


Venus Williams and Hank Kuehne, again


Robert Dinero and wife Grace Hightower


Peter Norton (Norton anti-virus) and wife Gwen


Paula and Robin Thicke


Olympic star Tina Ellerston and family


Olympic star Mary Wineberg and her husband/coach


Deborah Wilson and Cliff Skelton and look at Regina King with Nicholas Gonzales!


Naimi Cambell and her rich man. This is her longest relationship.


Tia Mowry and boyfriend


*Just wanted to make sure you were paying attention.*


Michal and Tarika


George Lucas of Star Wars fame and wife Mellody Hobson. Get it girl.


Just a megarich couple. His money.


Marsha Thompsaon and husband


Mark and Allison ECKO


Lydia and Mat Peobody. Filthy rich.


Kim Wayans and husband


Kim Hamilton and Werner Klemperer


Ms. Kelly and a guy she either is dating or was dating.


Keesha Sharp and husband. Mmmm...


Jane Fonda's son and wife


Halle and her baby daddy


Golden Brooks and her boyfriend


Celebrated chef Wolfgang Puck and his wife Gelita


Garcelle and her family


Eve and fiance Shane Powell


Eve and Shane again :-)


Now would you look at this. Anything is possible people! This is Count and Countess Ferdinand.


Movie critic Rupert and his wife Chaz


Angela Howard and Matt Stone, originator of the South Park Series


Alice Walker with her family


Alfre Woodard and husband


Alec Wec and boyfriend


Akira and her husband. Asian's need love too.


Kerry Washington and her new man

Now check out all of these ordinary interracial couples:










Did she snag a Pilot?


That's that good ole used-to-be-your-Domestic love.


Family membership at the gym!


Interesting...


Here comes the bride!




Interesting II


That's that good ole used-to-be-your-slave love!









So what's up ladies? Will you date outside of your race?

42 comments:

  1. you're going to mess around and make me try "something new" this weekend. lol.

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  2. Honey Child I already am lol and I'm loving it!

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  3. when I was single........I tried everything. Older, younger, white hispanic, international, women, men, did I leave out anything? probably not. I still ended up marrying none of what I just stated. I just wanted to dabble, lol.

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  4. glad you posted this, It has always been ok for black men to date white women (i also argee with bottom of barrel) but a black women with a white guy was taboo. I liked to date hispanic and black but most black would decline because I was white and it was not accepted yet. So All I have to say is YOU GO GIRLS!!!

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  5. LOL @ some of your captions! I didn't know so many black women have or are with white guys. I'm all for dating someone outside my race.

    LOL @ Leslie...cover all the bases.

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  6. @ 3000 feet - I know huh?!

    @ Milly - well alright girl. :-)

    @ Leslie - I KNOW.

    @ TexasGhostrider - Hey ((waves)). I'm sure the sistas are ready to give it a try now. lol

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  7. Wow! everyone of these ladies look so very happy.Even the older ones still have very youthful looking faces.Black men need to step there game up for real.

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  8. I would definetly date out side my race, but what I had a problem with. I am black in I was dating a white boy who thought he was blacker than me that just didnt work out! but date whoever makes you happy

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  9. Anything is possible. Def not against it.......

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  10. Wow amazing, I think that this photo shows us that classy women on the arm of their man doesn't have to be slizzy or tasteless. I really like that fact that you don't really see these types of relationship in the media or on TV and so I love it. I use to date out of my race, never really had a bad mate. But since I'm single and without someone to love, is now considering to date out of my race none (blackman) not because of my past but because I want love and if it comes in the form of a different race, then so be it. Love the one who loves you. God bless all Gods children.

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  11. When i made the comment that i like that fact that we don't really see these types of relationships in the media or TV> "love it" because i believe love shouldn't be in the public eye to criticize or to ruin. Keep your love secret for just you and him. The media has a way of destroying a wonderful relationship. But one thing that I wish is that there was a show that allows the world to visualize all multicultural relationships, marriages with the black women with the White man, Asian man, or West Indian man etc. Because everyday you will see a blackman with other races all across the media, magazines and on websites. So let's give a HUGE shout out to the BEAUTIFUL BLACKWOMAN(without plastic surgery, boob implants,lipjob or buttpads). A natural blackwoman! Holla

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  12. Beautiful pics! Love sees no color. They forgot Justin Chambers (Alex on Grey's Anatomy) and his wife Keisha. They are such a beautiful couple!

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  13. Gotta say that this post was really enlightening. I never knew taht interracial dating was a choice, just something that happens. At least in London that's how it goes anyways. Men love women (unless their gay). There's not much more to it.

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  14. You forgot former Secretary of State William Cohen and his wife Janet Langhart...

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  15. And I also forgot about Canada's Governor General, Michaelle Jean.

    Where's David Bowie and Iman? There's another one....

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  16. I'm a white man and the first time i dated outside my race (black) i fell for and married. we've been together 5 years...have 2 beautiful boys and are still happy and going strong...let love reign.

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  17. They say Never say Never; I'll say it: NEVER A WHITE MAN FOR ME!
    I'm lovin' the Black skin I'm in as well as my kinky locks. I look forward to raising proud Black children with a strong Black man. (Oh yeah!!!)
    Everythang ain't for everybody; as for me: The blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice!!! (mmm mmm good!)

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    1. Funny because when men just as dark and nappy as you open their mouths to offer their opinion on women like yourself it's usually of the form that you are too dark and nappy to assuage their own feelings of self-hate and therefore would not skeet on you from a distance. I always found it interesting that dark-skinned females readily fellate nigger dick with such fervency when the average dark-skinned Black man projects his hatred for himself onto dark women like you. There used to be a time when being preferred by darkies for having a light complexion and long hair would make my skin crawl and I would lament the plight of my darker-complexioned sistas until I grew up and realized tar mules apparently like the abuse. So while I can get a Black man with virtually zero self-esteem to spend his hard-earned money to be seen in public with a woman with my features and I don't even have to do so much as kiss him goodnight, let alone engage in coitus with a disease-ridden mongrel, you clearly are more than eager to be the blue black chick he fucks in private...interesting. I never knew a White man who had "redbone" or "yellowbone" in his vocabulary but when it comes to niggas there are plenty.

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  18. "if the store is out of brown bread I don't see nothin' wrong with trying the white."

    I'd be with my white husband regardless of how much "brown bread" was in stock. He's just my soulmate.

    I look forward to raising proud human children with my handsome, strong human partner! He's just the right man for me, and any child would be lucky to have a wonderful man like him as a father. :)

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  19. To each his own. I am an African American male and I DO NOT date white women. I love my beautiful African American women and I always will. I am sorry but it bothers me to see that my brothers are causing our women to seek love else where.

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  20. @ Thadeus - well, my husband is black. I love black men, but I've always believed love has no color...

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  21. I am black and have been married to a white man who has treated me like a queen for the past 30 years. After the black men I dated when I was younger, there is just no comparison.

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    1. The Black men YOU dated. Unless you've dated every Black man who ever existed, you can't rightfully categorize EVERY Black man negatively....no more than you can say that e-v-e-r-y White man is "wonderful".

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  23. I was married to a Puerto Rican for 22 1/2 years until she went to be with the Lord. I am Anglo Saxon, but that never made a difference to us because we loved each other. I am currently married to a Phillipino lady now. I like interracial relationships because it helps people to think outside the box and the more people do this, the less prejudice and bigotry there will be in this world we live in.

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  24. I am heart broken to see our black women running away and dating / marrying white men. This will lead to the end of the black race in America. I hate being part of a race full of sellout black people. Why do black people date what people when we all know that all white people hate all black people. Blacks are so stupid.

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  25. I do not have a problem with black men or women dating outside their race but I do have a problem when black men or women put down their own to justify their reasons for having an interracial relationship. To say all black women are dating white men because black men are lazy is a copout & the black women who agree with this blog are just as dumb and bitter about life as the person who posted it. When it comes to relationships, I think the problem (Not just African Americans but Americans in general) is that we are so independent and so materialistic we only date or marry someone for selfish reasons. A lot people go into relationship thinking, “What is this person going to do for ME? Or how is this person going to fulfill MY NEEDS?” instead of thinking “How can we grow together?” LOL Anyway there are worst things in life! LOL I think black women like to bring up this subject to avoid real issues like high pregnancy and STD rates among black women. If all black men are lazy then all black women are too promiscuous to keep a relationship.

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    1. There are these things called facts and then things called opinions. It is a fact that Black males in America are the least-educated, least-employed, most-imprisoned demographic in America for whom eight out of ten do not raise their children. It is a fact that over half of HIV cases in Black America were transmitted to women by Black males. It is a fact that they actually have the highest HIV rate in the nation. It is a fact that a Black woman is significantly more likely to be a victim of domestic violence at the hands of a Black man. So yes a Black male could never hope to actually get an attractive, desirable, well-off woman to be interested in him, Black or otherwise. Black males stay within the only bracket suitable for the pathetic state of life in which the majority of them dwell. After polluting the airwaves with rap songs lamenting how much they hate their own dark skin, wide nose and swollen lips the negro male without success or power to his name can only snag a fat, unwanted throwaway willing to tolerate his lack of manhood because she has no other choice. Fat women, battered women, weak women, ugly women and the like are perfect fodder for what the negro male needs to assuage his feelings of inadequacy. Black males look to television and the media to tell him who to be and imitate White males in every essence of their being yet ironically don't imitate the Ivy league grad, business ownership, financially stable part of being White and male in America. Even negro males with money can only bag whores, pornstars, prostitutes and other general trash with tires tracks on their vaginal walls. Contrary to when Black women date out, black males do not date up because they simply cannot, no real woman would settle for trash. So yes, when a Black woman dates out it is largely in part to the fact that her individual accomplishments have so far removed her from the failures of her male counterparts and dating out is the only way to find an equal. It's not about putting others on a pedestal, it's about being honest. The rate of White, Asian and Hispanic males who are deadbeats is less than HALF that for Black males COMBINED. And to even compare education and income would virtually call into question what societal purpose Black males even have in existing in the first place. Things such as financial security and intellectual compatibility are not qualifiers that are racist or classist but basic things to consider when building a family or relationship with your significant other. Just because the standards of women worth being with exclude Black men is something Black men should address on their own time. It is not a Black woman issue because what Black males fail to realize is this is not a Black woman standard, this is simply a self-respecting standard any quality female would observe which is why comparable women who are White, Asian, Hispanic or other ALSO would not date a Black male which is why they clean up society's leftovers and trash women in the first place.

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  26. Say lilze, I'm happily married to a black man and even if I weren't I damn sure wouldn't be considered dumb and I'm most certainly not bitter -- read the rest of the blog, bitch. You called me dumb and I called you a bitch. Deal with it.

    Of course all black man aren't lazy -- I married a great one and many of my friends have also. This post is super old and your paragraph is super long. Get a life.

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  27. I have no problems with anyone dating outside of their race. But as for me, I do love my black men. I was inadvertently included in this list because as an actress, I portrayed a character (Daphne) that was married to an Asian man (akira) but this was acting and neither of us dated in real life. Had to make this distinction because I am happily engaged to a wonderful black man, but I am not mad at anyone else who chooses otherwise!

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  28. I would definetly date outside my race.. I love white men.. People is people

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  29. I have no problem with inter-racial dating and marriage,but the implication that Black men usually scrape the bottom of the barrel when we date White women is a ridiculous,bigoted statement,and shows the lack of respect many Black women have for Black men/White women relationships.Nor or Black women blameless when it comes to the failure of many Black men/Black women relationships.When we date outside our race because we think dating our own is beneath us,or that those of other races are superior,it is a symptom of the self-hatred that still permeates our people.The failure rate of inter-racial relationships is about the same as others.

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    1. There are these things called facts and then things called opinions. It is a fact that Black males in America are the least-educated, least-employed, most-imprisoned demographic in America for whom eight out of ten do not raise their children. It is a fact that over half of HIV cases in Black America were transmitted to women by Black males. It is a fact that they actually have the highest HIV rate in the nation. It is a fact that a Black woman is significantly more likely to be a victim of domestic violence at the hands of a Black man. So yes a Black male could never hope to actually get an attractive, desirable, well-off woman to be interested in him, Black or otherwise. Black males stay within the only bracket suitable for the pathetic state of life in which the majority of them dwell. After polluting the airwaves with rap songs lamenting how much they hate their own dark skin, wide nose and swollen lips the negro male without success or power to his name can only snag a fat, unwanted throwaway willing to tolerate his lack of manhood because she has no other choice. Fat women, battered women, weak women, ugly women and the like are perfect fodder for what the negro male needs to assuage his feelings of inadequacy. Black males look to television and the media to tell him who to be and imitate White males in every essence of their being yet ironically don't imitate the Ivy league grad, business ownership, financially stable part of being White and male in America. Even negro males with money can only bag whores, pornstars, prostitutes and other general trash with tires tracks on their vaginal walls. Contrary to when Black women date out, black males do not date up because they simply cannot, no real woman would settle for trash. So yes, when a Black woman dates out it is largely in part to the fact that her individual accomplishments have so far removed her from the failures of her male counterparts and dating out is the only way to find an equal. It's not about putting others on a pedestal, it's about being honest. The rate of White, Asian and Hispanic males who are deadbeats is less than HALF that for Black males COMBINED. And to even compare education and income would virtually call into question what societal purpose Black males even have in existing in the first place. Things such as financial security and intellectual compatibility are not qualifiers that are racist or classist but basic things to consider when building a family or relationship with your significant other. Just because the standards of women worth being with exclude Black men is something Black men should address on their own time. It is not a Black woman issue because what Black males fail to realize is this is not a Black woman standard, this is simply a self-respecting standard any quality female would observe which is why comparable women who are White, Asian, Hispanic or other ALSO would not date a Black male which is why they clean up society's leftovers and trash women in the first place.

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    2. I feel sorry for you. The Black Male is the strongest man on the planet, best looking man on the planet most envied man on the planet and most feared man on the planet because of his ingenuity and inner strength. All those negatives you so kindly pointed out are a result…. No point explaining, you would not understand,(and honestly, I could not be bothered to read it all – it was far too evil for my spirit)you have to be human. I will say in response, that there are of plenty uneducated, drug using, prison loving, murdering, rapist, poor, wife beating, child abusing WHITE trash men out there too (in fact they out number black men 2.1). No one is perfect. But you are nothing but a seriously ugly person inside (and most likely outside to). A hater of what you simple do not understand. Have you noticed how your life is in a downward spiral? Continue and it’s going to free fall. Bri, why are you so jealous… Oh, Black men don’t like you. I get it now.

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  30. I'm black, he's white and he's treated me better than any other man I've ever been with. Currently, we're married - 6 years strong. I don't put down my own race, I just say take love where you find it -- as long as it's a healthy relationship.

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  31. You forgot Jon B and his wife. This says it all. I love this. This is incredible. I knew the love was out there. We've just got to reach out and take it. Thanks so much for this website.

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  32. Absolutely!!! If I would have never dated my now husband I would have missed out on my blessing. Now I won't lie I was hesitant, I mean I have never dated a white man before. He turned out to be a good friend, great husband and father.

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  33. Now list the countless more successful interracial couples past and present; that are not highlighted that black men are in. Well allow me to help you with Wikipedia:

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_United_States

    So before you sound bitter and angry and try to denigrate and categorize black men, when countless more white men fall into those categories. You should first do your homework. Who cares why you type of black women wonder away and for your ignorant reasons of what you "may" have endured from say, a half percent of the black male population. You may as well rob up in a white sheet and allow the white massah to pimp your black ass as many have and are doing.

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  35. "While some sistas were putting up with lazy, gay, and/or generally sorry Black men, these sistas said Boy bye! and found successful unions with successful men of other races, mainly white." Self-hatred much?

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  36. White women leave and divorce White men everyday, so White men are n-o-t the "answer" you seem to be implying they are, with this biased article. Date and marry whoever you choose, but this attitude/mentality that the only way a Black woman can find and be happy, is with a White man, that this article seems to suggest, is pure and unadulterated bullshit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shame on you!

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  37. Kerry Washington is now married to and pregnant by a Black athlete.
    Stacy Dash and Naomi Campbell have been whores for White men since the Age of Aquarius.
    Perhaps they are not exactly the best choices to illustrate the majesty and superiority of the White man over the Black man, that this article seems to be pushing. There are good men, and not so good men, in EVERY race.

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